Wednesday, 11 April 2018

Visitors, Camping, and Football




Refreshments at Fingle Bridge
Still in 2017 catch-up mode!
The first pieces of furniture we invested in were of the camping kind - recall the photos from our first weeks at Devington Park (in the words of my cousin ‘it looks like you’re squatting!’). All the gear has come in handy though as we met up with our lovely Scot friends Paul, Lisa and wee Emma in Newquay last July. Dinner in the bistro, going for a big win on the 2p machines in the arcade, swimming in 17 degrees (where Maciek broke Noah’s finger with a Nerf Ball - well, it was VERY bruised anyway), and a 9-hole round of golf during which Noah got a hole-in-one, getting burnt (yes, sunburn in 17 degrees is possible) on Newquay Beach where the children collected jellyfish and called one Jemima who was still alive (Amelia’s input), explored caves, dug holes and played Nerf Ball games (again?). It was a lovely few days and the best thing was it being only a 90 minute drive as opposed to the massive road trips you have to take in W.A to get away for a while! Paul and Lisa hired a chalet (quite luxury compared to our tent - there was even fireplace!) where we relaxed one evening with a few drinkies and a funny old game of ‘1 minute monsters’ - i.e. draw your best monster in 1 minute then all vote on the best one! Thanks for a fab time - can’t wait to see you guys again!
Run to the sea!

Next camping trip was to North Devon, to the coastal villages of Lynton and Lynmouth. The drive through Exmoor National Park granted us outstanding views and our campsite/tent-site was right beside a raging river (because children’s safety is our main priority!) which soothed me to sleep funnily enough but kept Maciek awake which is unusual as it’s normally the other way around! It was a very peaceful place and we were gently awoken by birdsong (no crows!). We explored a walk along the river where Amelia and Noah enjoyed risking their lives by trying to cross it, and walked into the picturesque villages of Lynton and Lynmouth, riding the cliff railway from one to the other, finding another Iron Age hillfort with spectacular views overlooking the ocean, browsing quaint gift shops and antiques and stopped in for a short visit to a strange little one-man-operated model railway (whispers between us: come on, let’s go, it’s creepy). The cliff railway is water powered and has been in use since 1890, delivering cargo arriving by sea up the rugged cliffs to the village of Lynton. These days, be prepared to share your journey with large dogs who’ve enjoyed an afternoon frolicking in the sea! On Saturday night we decided to have dinner in the local pub which doubles up as a Thai restaurant on certain evenings. Managed by the Thai wife of the pub owner, (imagine a centuries old pub on one side of the entrance and all the colour and bling of a Thai restaurant on the other, complete with old fireplace) it was a really tasty experience, and not one we were expecting admittedly. It was a fab weekend (apart from the bit where Amelia refused to walk and leave behind an injured Robin who had hopped into a hole in a stone wall down a lane which required much trauma counselling and ice-cream bribery!) and on the way home we drove along the North Devon coast stopping at Dunster Castle and village, with its 17th century yarn market. Maciek stayed in the castle gardens among the crochet and archery for a nap on a blanket with Noah, while me and Amelia explored the castle. Far too much to see in a short afternoon so it’s one on the list for second visit. On the drive back down we stopped at a National Trust park and cooked sausages on our mini BBQ beside a river into which Noah promptly fell, completely, followed by one of us stepping in dog poo. Didn’t we have a lovely time! Anyone for badminton?
Only two months after we arrived my Mum came to visit her parents, my Nan and Grandad in Staffordshire and she stole away with my Nan to come and see us in Devon for a few days. We squeezed into our little apartment somehow and had a lovely couple of days together, one in the village of Cockington for cream teas (shame it was pouring of rain, not a good day for Nan to dip her toes in the sea) with our family here in Devon, and then a drive across the moor to Buckland Abbey, a former monastery founded in 1278, later sold as a home to Sir Francis Drake, the first Englishman to circumnavigate the globe. Having not read anything about the place before visiting, we wandered around wondering why it was full of seafaring artefacts. Then we watched a video in the visitors centre and found out about the Drake connection - information that would have been useful to us much earlier! In the attic room is a dress up space for children, and quite typically, it was closed for renovation on our visit, only to re-open in two days time. Booo! Didn’t matter really, there was a great big massive barn to explore where Amelia and Noah put on a play for us that went on for donkeys with no identifiable narrative arc, and a cool medieval kitchen to re-enact in, museum rooms and a playground. On the way home we stopped in at Widecombe-in-the-Moor, at 300 yr old ‘The Old Inn’, for dinner and drinks. Topped off! It was sad to see Mum and Nan leave the next day, but knowing Mum would be back in a few months time made it easier. Still, couldn’t help the lump in my throat waving her away.
Another visitor from Perth, my good friend Tasha, met me half way across country in Salisbury for a day. I had big secret ambitions of going to Stonehenge on a coach for the afternoon but on arriving at the station to find Tash with a fair load of luggage to deal with squashed that plan and rightly so because it would have been a mad rush anyway! Prior research told me that right beside the station was a pub serving as a luggage store for a couple of coins a day, and this was another plan that was quickly squashed when we knocked on the door, and knocked on the door, and called, and realised nobody was at the Inn. What to do? Aha! Further down the road was another pub offering luggage store, so again, knocking and calling, knocking and calling, we began to give up hope and almost resigned ourselves to a day carting the luggage about with us, but then, a curtain twitch at the front door, a turn of a lock and a greeting - finally! Bit of a dodgy looking joint but all’s well that ends well and Tash’s luggage was safely stowed while we explored. With time against us it was straight to the cathedral to enjoy a brunch on the sunny lawn before a stroll around the cloisters and the cathedral itself, where in one room the Magna Carta was available for view, which I must say held up some very archaic opinions of ladies and their duties! Scoff, said we. Good job 13th century ideas are no longer (for the most part at least). We both had trains to get back to, so our time together was short and sweet but a lovely reminder of home, and my gorgeous friend left me with a package full of goodies, not least a big box of Milo Cereal which Noah devoured once I got home! Thank you my dear!
What's the game plan?

A week after arriving in Exminster, Maciek approached the local football club in the hope of signing Noah up to a team, only to find the under 9’s were the only age group without one, due to the lack of coach, unless you’re interested? Alright then, said Maciek with a why-not shrug. And so it was that Maciek found himself leading a group of 13 boys who had never before been on a football team. He acquired the help of  couple of Dad’s to volunteer as assistant coaches, pulled together a kit for the lads, went on a pretty full-on FA Level 1 coaching course and first aid and safeguarding and all the rest of it and there it was, St Martin’s Football Club had an under 9’s team with an Aussie coach with a Polish name that is very hard to pronounce and remember (they call him maCHECK - but he doesn’t mind) who didn’t have a clue what he was doing (at first - I think now he has a pretty good grip on things!) Reminds a little of the Polish Australian Lederhosen wearing non-German speaking waiter in Austria! Despite the challenges of a new team getting flogged at every game, he really loves it, and the boys have come on in leaps and bounds and are beginning to hold their own during matches. Many an early Saturday morning have we spent standing in mud under pouring rain but Noah loves it and I love watching, the only one who groans is Amelia, who usually sits in the car reading by herself. Can’t blame her really. She sounds like the sensible one! A highlight for Noah is going to watch Exeter City play and getting a go on the pitch at half time for a penalty shoot out!
In between all that was finding jobs and buying cars and bits and pieces for the house and paying loads of bills and picnics and hiking and exploring. A magical spot is Fingle Bridge (national trust) on the River Teign in the national park. There’s a lovely pub and an ancient wood and another Iron Age hillfort. We took the Teign Gorge Classic Circuit (unbeknownst to us at the time!) along the river and climbing towards Castle Drogo, the last castle to be built in England completed in 1930. It was a heck of a walk and a massive effort for the kids, especially since we hadn’t planned it properly and didn’t really know where we were going and how long it was going to take, but what fabulous views over the valley! What a relief to get to the end though, enjoy a drink at the pub and a paddle in the river in the late afternoon sun. Can’t wait to do this one again! We just won’t mention it to the littlies (wink wink).
We were just thinking the other day, about how we thought our trip around Europe and living in Austria five years ago was so difficult (albeit brilliant) because Amelia and Noah were so young, especially Noah. And we remember saying at the time, he could have done with being another year older, and that would have made it all the more easier. Now we say - Guffaw to that!! We now know that that trip back then was an absolute walk in the park in comparison to this! Back then, we tricked Amelia into ‘going for a walk’ instead of a hike and told stories all the way to keep her mind off it, while Noah lazed and slept in the carrier. Now, they have OPINIONS, and OTHER IDEAS, and very strong OPPOSING THOUGHTS ON EVERY MATTER and just going for a walk around the block takes half hour of compromise and discussion (and sometimes a little bit of subtle bribery!). The moral of this story is, should you be considering doing what we’re doing or have done, and you think your darlings are too young, and maybe you should wait till they’re older and more independent - think again. That’s all I’m saying. Do it, while they’re more or less happy to go along with whatever, so long as there might be an ice-cream to be had at the end of it!





Jemima the Jellyfish

A cool swim

Look what I can do!

Campsite golf

A hole in one!

Campsite play

Breakfast time

Cave explorer



Dunster village

The lawn Dunster Castle

Sausage stop-off

Lynmouth

17th century yarn market Dunster

Campsite Lynton

Camping Lynton

Fingle Bridge


Fingle Bridge

We made it to the top!

Evening football training

Penalties on the big pitch

Saturday morning matches

Salisbury Cathedral



Noah loves monks at Buckland Abbey

And Amelia loves cake!

Buckland Abbey gardens

Old recipes at Buckland Abbey

Mum and Nan, Buckland Abbey

Meet the Flintstones!

Bag Man Len at Cockington!

Gift shop Cockington

Photo Bomb Shenanigans!

The Old Forge

Our last morning



Salisbury Cathedral

Where are those rotten tomatoes?

Milo Cereal!!!!!

Mum and ponies

The Cloisters at Salisbury

The Olde Inn at Widecombe